hi there, you have come to the right place.. im not sure about this cancer, but if you need support or your niece does this is the right place. Advice would be to just let her cry, be angry, or talk only if she wants to talk about it... take care ... View more

im so sorry to hear this how awful! you have been through so much i cant imagine.. your husband seems cowardly for leaving you in a time of need... i am supporting my fiance with terminal cancer and couldnt imagine leaving him right now.. although its such a stressful time and i suppose everyone handles things differently... im sure he will realize how selfish he is being and come back.. i is a shitty time but i as a carer realize its not about me.. its about my partner and making him as happy as can be.. im here if you need to chat, i hope you start feeling a bit better soon take care xoxo ... View more

thank you 🙂 i hope i get a miracle to!!! ... View more

i really do hope he starts to get better.. its awful seeing someone you love so much suffer.. my fiance is on his second round of chemo after battling bowel cancer for nearly two years and im over seeing him sick and tired all the time.. sometimes i just feel like i need some sort of relief.. take care i hope things work out for you both xo ... View more

im so very sorry to read this, but its not uncommon which is a sad thing.. i have seen so many friends of mine disappear.. using shitty excuses to not call, to blame me for 'not wanting to go out'.. my partner has terminal cancer and its such a nightmare.. i am lucky however to have one best friend, who has stuck by me, and she is helpful to and understanding as she is a nurse, which helps... i have given up on those people who obviously don't get it, and i try and think that at least one day they'll need me for advice.. almost everyone is affected somehow by cancer, you'd have to be naive not to think you will be... come on here as often as you like, as i find talking to strangers helps sometimes more than talking to 'friends' that don't have a clue!! i hope you feel better soon take care xoxo ... View more

so sorry for your loss xoxo ... View more

hey there, trust me you are not alone in this! my fiance is exactly the same, he has had cancer for nearly two years and is on chemo second time around.. his moods are so unpredictable its really hurtful sometimes.. the other day we were playing a rough n tumble game tickling each other n slapping (playfully of course) when he hurt me and i started to cry and he called me a big cry baby and refused to apologise.. or sometimes he will just yell at me to for not listing.. you are not selfish and its so hard sometimes you just want to run away.. im on anti depressants at the moment and they really help me from falling apart.. now when he snaps i kind of just get over it and ignore it where as before hand i would get really upset about it.. and it is hard because you feel so bad for them at the same time, they are going through a horrible thing and there's nothing we can do.. try and not take it to personally when he does snap, although its so hard.. they say people take things out on the people that are closest to them! please feel free to chat to me anytime! xo ... View more

hey there, im a younger member but am supporting a partner with cancer im 25.. if you need any advice here to help.. how is your son coping with the news? xo ... View more