Can't offer any suggestions but think Julie's advice sounds like a good start . ... View more

I did reply previously but I may not have saved it . I'm glad you are feeling better now but still get that counselling . If you get a suitable counsellor it will make a big difference to you .<3 ... View more

I would have said do and act as you feel . Then I read Peanuts' reply and she said it so well . My thoughts are with you . ... View more

Excellent !!! You are amazing . ... View more

I hope you enjoy it all . It is without doubt what you all need . Wish I could join you as my hubby isn't interesred in a cruise and I am . I'm guessing it's a cruise that you're going on . ... View more

Having cancer is a big deal .It takes time to adjust to physical changes after treatment and to deal emotionally . Most find online support groups helpful as others don't want to know too many details and don't know how to deal with you saying how you feel . Even when you reach a stage of acceptance and adjustment there can be down days . ... View more

It must be very difficult but much better when families stick together . You all seem to have a good attitude . All the best . ... View more

As bas as all can seem most of us do manage to cope . Use any support offered and give as much support to your parents as you can . I wish you well. ... View more

I agree that those people behaved very badly . Do as you like with your dad's ashes . It's none of their business . You owe them nothing ,not even what you decide in the end . ... View more

I am sorry that you lost your husband and that your son has lost his dad . It does sound as though you are coping well under the circumstances . ... View more