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January 2020
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Hi Ria I am thinking that your husband is probably depressed and not feeling all that loving at the moment. He also may be trying to distance himself from you thinking he is making it easier for you later on. Just reassure him that you love him and give him random kisses and hugs. Dont badger him about what is wrong. He is in a terrible place at the moment. I had similar experience at one stage with my partner. Hang in there...youre doing a great job.
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January 2020
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Hi Traci-Renee Thinking of you and your hubby following his surgery. Hope it went well.
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January 2020
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Thanks for your positive message. I am seeing a counsellor now and am finding it helpful. Just have to focus on our good memories. Im finding this forum to be good also. People who havent had to deal with losing someone to cancer cant understand. I had someone text me....chin up yesterday...really?? Thanks for your kind words
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January 2020
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Thankyou Traci-Renee. Your words mean a lot to me. I did try to email you but the message bounced back. Big hug to you.......
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January 2020
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Hello Colin81 What a lovely person you are!! I am glad that my partner became more accepting the last few months of his life. The anger disappeared and we always told each other how much we loved each other. He called me his angel and he was my hero. Miss him everyday
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December 2019
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I feel for you. I went through many months of my partner being angry and nothing ever being good enough. I guess because we are there 24/7 we are the ones who bear the brunt. I used to get really hurt when his sister would fly up for a few days here and there then try to take over. She got all the good moods and was on a pedestal while I took all the crap. It did get better and he became more loving and appreciative toward the last few months. Hang in there...he knows you love him. Just tell him you're doing your best. Hope you are being supported by family or friends. Caring for someone with cancer is the hardest thing you'll ever do x
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December 2019
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3 months tonight at 2358 that my beloved partner died. Missing him everyday. My grief seems to be getting worse ........ Love you always Goran xxx
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December 2019
Hang in there.... I know it absolutely rips your heart out. Your mum wouldnt want you to feel like that though. Sending you healing
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November 2019
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Thanks so much for your kind words. Day by day...sounds easy but not so far... Love to you and your mum Tania. Sorry to hear of your loss also xx
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