Hi Michelle, I'm sorry to hear about your friend. Sometimes the person who is coming to the end of their life comes to accepting it before the people around them.  This can make it difficult for everyone.  It's lovely that you are reaching out for help to know what to say to her and her husband.  I've included a link for some ideas of what to say to your friend.  You could also ask her husband some of these questions.  Letting them both know that you are there, and you are happy to help and listen, if or when they are ready, is a beautiful thing to do. Please also look after yourself, as you are also grieving for the loss of your friend.   When You Don’t Know What to Say | End of Life | Cancer Council NSW     ... View more

Hi Karen   I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis.  You can call Cancer Council QLD, they have a Connect program, where they try to match people with volunteers who have gone through similar cancer diagnosis and treatment.  They have someone they could match you, they will also tell you about other services you can access.  The telephone number is 13 11 20.   I hope you get the help and support you need.   Regards Maddi ... View more

Hi Susie   I'm sorry to hear about your cancer diagnosis.  It sounds like you've been through a lot over a short period of time.  If you would like support, please call CC QLD on 13 11 20.  They will be able to tell you about the support they can offer.     I hope you get the support and connections you are hoping to get from the forum.   Warm regards   Maddi ... View more

Hello scorpio2318   It sounds like you and your wife have been through a lot throughout your 2024. I'm pleased that you've found the support that was provided by the Cancer Council has been helpful.  Please if you or your wife continue to struggle, please done hesitate to contact our 13 11 20 Support Line.   I hope that 2025 is a good year for you and your wife.     ... View more

I'm pleased it helped, and I hope you get the support you need.  I hope your treatment goes well.   ... View more

Hi Sonya444   I'm sorry to hear about your cancer diagnosis.  Writing a letter can be a good idea, as it lets you get everything out that you want to say in a calm way.  You can amend it and share it when you are ready.  The Cancer Council has some good information regarding speaking to friends and family about a cancer diagnosis.  If you like in Australia, you can reach out to Cancer Council for support by calling 13 11 20.  If you don't live in Australia, you can look for local support or speak to your GP.  It's important that you get emotional support at this time. Telling people you have cancer - Cancer Council Victoria         ... View more

Hi Suzanne   Getting a cancer diagnosis, and then having to make decisions regarding your treatment, is a lot to come to terms with.  If you're in Australia, you could call the Cancer Council's 13 11 20 telephone support line.  The line is open Monday to Friday 9-5, the line is manned by Allied Health workers.  They can offer you emotional and clinical support.  They won't be able to tell you what direction to go in regarding your treatment, but they will be able to speak to you about it.  The 13 11 20, line can also provide you with emotional support and speak to you about the other support services the Cancer Council offer.   If you're not in Australia, it may be worth considering speaking to your GP or consultant at the hospital for how you can access support to help you get through this period.  Lot of people reach out for extra emotional support, after a cancer diagnosis. I hope you get the support you need.  ... View more

Hi Chloe It's not easy seeing your father in this condition, and it's good that you've found this forum. There are so many different types of cancers and cancer treatments, even people who on paper may have the same type of cancer their treatment and side effects can vary.  It may be worth asking for a meeting with your father's consultant. If you are in Australia, you can call the 13 11 20 support line.  The line is managed by Allied Health worker, they can provide you with emotional support and may be able to answer your clinical questions.   ... View more

Hi    Getting a cancer a cancer diagnosis or supporting someone with a cancer diagnosis, is a life changing event, it can be scary and isolating.  It's good if you have friend, family or a supportive GP who can help you.  You can also look at the Cancer Council's website, they have some great resources, if you live in Australia, you can call the 13 11 20 number, that's manned by Allied Health workers, they will be happy to speak to you.  The most important thing is that you reach out for support.   Cancer Council NSW - Cancer Information and Support   ... View more

Hi Greg57 It's not unusual for people who have received a cancer diagnosis to feel confused and stressed, it is a confusing stressful situation, If you haven't already called Cancer Council's 13 11 20 telephone number, please call them.  The line is manned by allied health professionals, they may be able help you with emotional, and some financial support.  I hope you get the support you need. The line is open Monday to Friday 9-5 and is for people in Australia.   Maddi ... View more