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I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my Mum February 23rd and I still miss her and cry everyday. I think grief is not about getting over something its about learning to live with the pain. I hope you have people around you to support you through this time. Sending hugs your way xo

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Hi Martine, Thank you. I'm sorry for your loss. I am starting to see that the pain will always be in my heart and I will always feel the empty feeling. nothing is the same without Mum to share it. I have eased up on myself and not being as hard on myself when I have bad days. I'm trying really hard to be strong for my girls. Thank you and you too xo

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Hi Sam, Yes I am learning that everyone does it differently and trying not to have such high expectations of myself. My Mum would be so sad to see me this upset. I'm sorry you had such a short time with your dad but I'm sure you have special memories. Thank you 🙂

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Hi Virginia, Sorry for your loss :( I know, I had my birthday a few weeks after we lost Mum and it was just so sad, my youngest daughters birthday is next Saturday followed by mothers day sunday. It just seems everything is empty without Mum here to share it. Sorry about the loss of your husband too. I hope your taking care of yourself too and following your wise and kind advice 🙂 Sending hugs to you xo

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Thanks KJ, yeah I have spoken to 2 different professionals. I just find things are so hard.

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it has been nearly 2 months since I lost my mum to pancreatic cancer and I just feel so lonely without her. I am trying to take one day at time but lately its more like a minute at a time. Some days start so well and then any little thing can trigger my tears. I am so emotional about everything else in my life too, like my job, my friends and also the ex boyfriend that ahs just come back into my life. I don't think it will ever get any easier I just need to find a way to deal with the empty feeling that I have 😞

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My heart is breaking, I lost my Mum 11 days ago after nearly a 12 month battle with pancreatic cancer. I dont know how to cope and am finding daily jobs impossible. I have to go back to work tomorrow and am not looking forward to it at all. My girls went back to school today and my 11 year old cried all morning getting ready. I feel so empty and nothing feels right. People keep telling me it will get easier and that at least mum is not suffering anymore. I just want the pain to stop 😞

missbrookie

Thank you for your kind words. I am trying very hard, some days I am so strong and manage to keep it together other days I fall apart.

missbrookie

My Mum was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer 11 months ago and my life has changed so much. She moved in with me and my 2 daughters for 7 months but became to sick to be at home. Now she is 2 hours away in a aged care home. I feel so lost, I dont know how to look forward to the future knowing whats coming. My friends dont understand as theyve never been through anything like this. My heart is breaking and I feel so alone 😞

missbrookie

Hi Julie, thank you. i havent even had a chance to be on here since i joined, my mum is going downhill fast 😞

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