Hi Bob, how special that you found your wife’s hat with Courage written on it. It was meant to help you for sure.  One day at a time, sometimes one hour at a time. You are moving forward. It’s ok not to know what lies ahead. One day you will. There’s no rush.  🙏💕Linda ... View more

Hi Michael,  there is a lot to unpack - I took 2 months off work then eased back into it. I honestly think I was on auto pilot the first few months - almost zombi like - then Sydney Covid lock down hit I was great full I didn’t have to deal with anyone for 16 weeks ….. The time off looking back now helped me get use to being at home alone. Learning many new skills how to clean the pool, do the lawns the house maintenance outside as well as inside.  ... View more

Thanks for warm welcome everybody! I feel your stories too... I will also support everybody here and I'm sure everything will be fine at us! ... View more

I recently lost my wife to colon cancer; she did not have an advance directive. When the doctor asked me what her wishes were I told him what she wanted, he also asked my wife and she said the same thing, although he was not confident she could make a clear decision. But I was her husband and she was also refusing to wear an oxygen mask. It would be easier on you if he does fill one out, or in case you are not there to voice his wishes. I found this webpage https://www.health.gov.au/health-topics/palliative-care/planning-your-palliative-care/advance-care-directive ... View more