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September 2012
im sorry to hear of this.. this sounds like my situation although now my partner is waiting for a trial... its so tiring.. i feel for you as a partner.. it can get very lonely and sad sometimes. I believe everyone is different these docs seem to always get it wrong!
stay safe xo
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so i know ive posted so many blogs about people not caring anymore.. but i feel really down about it. I cant believe the amount of peopel that no longer care about me or my partner.. people that just dont bother asking how i am and people that no longer call him. Its our wedding in 6 weeks and some people havent even botherd to RSVP! im so tired of this cancer roller coaster.. i know theres still a lot of heartbreak ahead i just want to get off it! its so draining, some days i just want to stay in bed all day reading.. i have no energy anymore and even though i have bouts of happiness its not constant anymore 😞 im so over it all!
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September 2012
hi milli im so sorry to read ur dreadful news.. im 25 and my husband to b is 24, he has terminal cancer.. im
not a widow... yet.... but i know how you must be feeling. Id love to hear from you, if you want to pm me? i hope your doing ok... it must b so hard for you with a bub 😞 we do not have children and prob will never have the chance to...
take care xxx
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September 2012
thank you both for your replies... its so hard.. we are currently staying between both parents houses.. its really hard. We are just so young its so not fair... we are getting married next month which im so happy about but so worried about after the wedding.. whilst most couples would be off celebrating their future together im just wondering how much longer we will have together... 😞
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August 2012
Ohh that sounds completly awful! U poor thing... Hang in there, eat, shower and have a cup of coffee! Keep yourself sane.... Thinking of you 😞 xxoo
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August 2012
Thanks for your responses 🙂 yes cancer totally sucks badly.. It just ruins anything and everything.. 😞
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Last night my fiance admitted to me that hes scared of dying in hospital... It just broke my hear into a million pie es... I broke down and cried.. It seemed to real.. I said i was scared to of being alone and that i wouldnt cope without him.. Im so frightend of the end, how will i cope when he passes etc? We dont have our own place and i so desperatly want to rent so we can be together properly but he says we cant afford i... Is there any career benefits i can get once wer married? I just feel like this is all getting to real and im starting to really think il never be "normal" again...
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August 2012
you poor thing!! sleep deprivision makes anyone angry! its no wonder your having a hard time... can u send both kids off for a couple of nights to the grandparents just to get a proper rest? i know wen im losing it i have a glass of wine and a nice hot bath and it feels all better.. ur poor hubby.. what do the docs rekon? hugs!!! 😞 xx
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August 2012
you poor thing... i know how chemo can change a person.. my fiance will scream at me til im in tears then call me a cry baby.. ive learnt to just walk away or not take it personally and it works.. chemo does awful things to men ive heard with mood swings.. u do need te away tho, i went away with my family for a bit without him and felt 100 percent better... thinking of you x
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August 2012
hi there i really feel like i can relate.. my bf was diagnosed at 23 with bowel cancer.. hes had two years of chemo, radio and surgery... then it came back.. hes on chemo for the moment but only til our wedding.. wer getting married in oct.. he wants quality over quantity.. i also know how hard it is being so young.. none of ur friends can relate and unfourtunatly ppl slip away.. im 25 and hes almost 25 now, wer just trying to make the most of what we have left.. if u ever need to chat just message me 🙂 xx
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