So sorry. ... View more

I think that friendships can change anyway. I can imagine at your age they are sometimes vased om having fun together so some people may be less willing to be involved in your life. The ones you keep through this are real friends. Value them. Some that you lose or see less of may just not be strong enough to handle heavy stuff like cancer . Just a few more thoughts I had. ... View more

I just noticed that this blog was in 2009. My reply ought to be ignored as it may br irrelevant . My apologies. ... View more

I would be stunned too. I can't imagine life with those parts of your body removed but until they explained it to you ,you probably couldn't either. A 12 month life expectancy is not a great option either. My thoughts are with you. How disappointed you must be with the cancer returning so soon after you thought it was all good. I think I get how you feel about your family. I am about to turn 61.I have 3 children and 7 grandchildren.I also have a wonderful husband. Here you can say whatever you need .It must be so difficult.I wish you well. ... View more

Sorry ,I didn't see it but congratulations. ... View more

I have a rare cancer called adenoid cystic carcinoma .When I was diagnosed 2 months of tests (scans,biopsies ) and planning for surgery followed. This was the scariest time of my life. Without my husband I can't imagine how I would've gotten through this time.My other great supports were my daughter and one friend in particular. I discussed the surgery options with these 3 people and finally agreed to give the surgeon the go ahead to do what he thought best . What I needed from these 3 was open discussion . From my husband I needed lots of hugs. I experienced sudden moments of insecurity. His being there helped a lot . The 3rd thing I needed was to be allowed to just sit and think sometimes. This was not always beneficial but I wanted to do it sometimes as there was a lot to think about. This may help answer your question. Still,everyone is a bit different . ... View more

I have no knowledge of your cancer but some of what you have experienced emotionally is similar for me and many others here. Unlike you I didn't have chemo ,just radiation. I never cried or broke down. I was mostly very scared. Now cancer doesn't bother me as I am in remission. You have come to the right place to chat . I hope you get replies from those who have had the same cancer or those who have had chemo. Even losing your hair temporarily must be a really big deal. Welcome !!! ... View more

Congratulations!!! ... View more

A few months ago someone asked to be my friend and I accepted. This person had not posted so I messaged her/him to tell me something about herself/himself,twice. After no reply I unfriended that person. I was hesitant but do not want a pretend friendship with anyone . If that person still uses this and communicates I will also but friendships must be two-sided. Why would someone ask to be my friend and not talk or ever post? ... View more