Hi @Bud,
I sent a private message welcoming you to the Online Community, but thought I might also comment here in case anyone reading is in a similar situation.
It's incredibly hard being away from a loved one who has a cancer diagnosis, and difficult to know how to support them. You don't mention where your mum lives, but some people in your situation have contacted a major cancer organisation/charity where their family member lives to see if there are some local supports that can be put in place.
This link to international cancer websites (scroll to the bottom of the page) covers some of the major cancer organisations internationally and getting in touch with a relevant one may provide a way to give some practical as well as emotional support from afar.
Please don't forget to take care of yourself too. Here is a link to another page of information and resources for family and friends of someone with a cancer diagnosis, and it might be helpful for you and your sister at this time.
Kind regards,
Margaret
Online Community admin team
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