Hi @Seilien and welcome to our community,
Sorry to hear you've had a secondary diagnosis, have they given you any kind of timeframe for the surgery and radiation?
I am going to recommend you take a look at our podcasts here. There are some that might resonate with yourself, as well as some that might be good for your husband to listen to, such as this one about cancer affecting the carer too. You may also like to listen to this one about family dynamics and how relationships can change.
-Kate
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