Hi ribs I Agree with Budgie ,you need to put yourself first now,I don’t understand people’s behaviour at times,good luck with whatever you decide. ... View more

Hi Kate I am doing ok thanks,our suburb is not in lockdown at present, I hope everyone else is going as well as can be expected in these challenging times. ... View more

Hi sch Gee It’s terrible the misfortune that happens in your family,truly  incredible I hope you and your wife recover soon. ... View more

Has there been any mention of a nerve block for his pain, unfortunately it isn’t always successful . ... View more

Hi Louiseturns50 Gee you have had a massive surgery ,that it’s good that’s your physical recovery is ok,it’s really understandable that your emotional recovery is very difficult it’s only been seven weeks since surgery,and you are getting mixed messages from your Medical team ,try and get a very thorough explanation of what you are facing,I remember my thoughts and doubts after my surgery especially when I was told they couldn’t get it all,it is normal to have those feelings ,fears and doubts of the unknown and the future,I remember speaking to a doctor about them,I eventually became reasonably comfortable with the future.I try to ignore what if’s in life.   We are all different how we handle these situations,nothing in life prepares us for this,don’t be too hard on yourself it is still early days in your mental recovery.     ... View more

Hi Njhammers Sincere  condolences on the passing of your wife,I looked on the Etsy site such brilliance and bright colours in her work . ... View more

Bowie70 Its good to read you are recovering from surgery,fingers crossed for your results, keep up good work. ... View more

Hi JoCee Having your dreams is a good thing ,you are a cancer survivor  a great positive,and who knows what the future can bring or what lies around the corner ,hopefully you find what you are looking for in a person and life, yes you are still young with time to find the relationship wanted good luck. ... View more

Hi Bowie 70 I am well thanks, Covid has changed how we interact with others and life unfortunately,it was lovely that your friend came with a hug and pumpkin soup,A hug can definitely improve our feelings,you will be surprised how much strength inside of you that can be drawn upon when things seem to be at their darkest in time of crisis,yes you will learn more about yourself . ... View more

Good luck with your Surgery,it is hard to not want to burden family,or friends,but look at it this way ,sounds like you would be there for others,only this time it’s you who may need the support and help,I remember not wanting to ask for help and staying independent,but we may all need help at different times in our lives,just ask. I did ,and my life was enriched by the responses,I got. ... View more