I'm not just active in Facebook due that some of the people there are judgmental. Also, I feel that people there can invade your privacy. I'm hoping to find an app that can respect me and who would accept me for who I am. Besides, I want to engage in an app that would make me feel happy if there is. ... View more

Wearing a cardigan and scarf is a good choice since it will not limit the body's movements. Besides, these wears are light and comfortable to use.  ... View more

Hi Peter, I'm sorry to hear about your situation. For context, I've lost many family members to cancer, had cancer myself and I was involved in a serious auto vehicle accident that took me a lot closer to death than my cancer, and I certainly was not expected to recover from that one either. It was a protracted painful recovery with very little hope of a good outcome.   Before that accident, I was certain that I would choose to die over losing any of my quality of life (I was in my 20's). But in the aftermath of the accident and spending time with people worse off than I was, I learnt I had to change my expectations of what a good recovery was or what I considered quality of life. I learnt to love and appreciate different aspects of my life, my family and loved ones, and who I was.   Now, I'm not trying to suggest one thing or another to you, just give a slightly different perspective to this. The line, no doubt, is different for everyone and it's a very complicated subject. But that line can change given our perspective and expectations.   I wish you well Peter. -s ... View more

Thanks for your reply it is actually a slow growing low grade tumor and I am seeing a surgeon on Friday, a second opinion after the first one only offered me open surgery which is really traumatic, so my wonderful oncologist has referred me to another surgeon who I will see on Friday for a VATS surgery. I am not looking forward to this at all but grateful that it has been found while still quite small under 2 cms so I should not need anything else except surgery to remove one lobe of my right lung.  I am sure I should be able to recover, although it will probably take a couple of months.    Thanks again for your reply   Maz ... View more

Its hard to help someone if that someone already gave up of herself. The best is to seek Professional Counselling as this is their expertise. That's the only help you can give to her based on her condition.. ... View more

I knew a guy with that.  He was a little weird,  but he had his own place and worked and looked after himself.  Has a great deal of trouble socializing......has no interest it either......he's aware of what he has and has tried hard to learn to mimic  "normal" people to fit in.   He's very smart....in IT and was earning six figures in the job he had last time I saw him.   I don't suppose you have any hopes of prince charming coming along and looking after her.   It's a tough one.  I suppose you just have to try and include her in what your doing and teach her to be able to look after herself and develop some relationships with people as best she can.    You have more probs then I, that is for sure.   You're making me feel fortunate.     ... View more

Beware when reconnecting. Some people don’t know how to respond and it can be too much for them.  So if you get a bad reaction, don’t blame them. Give them a little more time and try again giving specifics about what you want need. That will allow them to respond more objectively and get used to the situation. In time they will let their guard down and closer relationships will develop.  Hugs to all! Rick ... View more

You're very welcome KaceJax 😁 Glad you enjoy it!!   Sending you good vies The Sana Soul ... View more

I am sad to hear that.  ... View more

Pray stronger and be healthier, that too shall pass.  ... View more