Hi Peanutz, hi SILLY and Pamela
It all sounds so confusing and frightening and stressful and plain overwhelming...
I feel for you. There's nothing I can do or say to take anything away.. We can only hear, listen and read your posts. I think it's accurate to say too that there is a collective nod that goes on here; many of us have been through the chaotic horror and would take away the pain from another person if only we could.
Counselling can really help to slow things down and provide support through the fury (the "What world are these people in?"), but, understandably, you probably cannot imagine having time or headspace to fit that in right now, your focus is on the "doing", the practical. Think it's called survival mode.
Keep going, you have support here.
Kind regards,
Sarah
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