Hi Seilien , I think her2+ and eastrogen + had more treatment options ? Mine is triple Neg which had less options Tc wise except chemo, surgery and radiotherapy then hope it doesn’t return . yeh people do tell me to stay positive and not to stress ... mostly I know they mean well but it annoys me because it IS a serious thing , facing a deadly disease and feels like they undermine it . I was a stress bot/ worrier but this time I feel I genuinely have the cause to worry lol ... esp my MIL said to me don’t worry too much , that made me v angry . Anyway I’ve reached a point where I ignore everyone and am in my own daze/ space . Some days it’s hard to ignore but yeh.. it’s perfectly normal to feel anxious , cry etc but stay hopeful. All the best with surgery . covid sucks !! I was in the hospital for 5 days due to fever / neutropenia and hated it , most of all missed my baby . Good luck with it all xx take it one day at a time & try not to overthink ( it won’t change anything but also make you upset ).
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