I found out my dad was diagnosed with stage 3b lung cancer when I was 17 . The did a lobectomy and what they found when they went inside they we’re already kinda late. It had spread to his lymph nodes . So they continued with chemo and radiation and re scanned and during that time was the worst I have ever seen my father it was terrible . Some people just don’t understand how it feels to see stuff like that . He couldn’t get up he’s scream all night in pain from his back . He’d throw up every where he couldn’t eat and was just skinny and frail. When they rescanned him after 3 months they found the chemo they put him on never worked and it spread to his liver and spine . So at that point they determined him terminal and all they could do was try to contain the cancer from spreading. I just turned 18 maybe 4 months ago now . It’s sad but whatever god has planned for him is for a reason . But on a happier note . I have rented him a corvette for a day cause he’s always wanted one every since I was little he wanted to travel the world with my mother in his own corvette but this was the closest I could get . But I say keep your head up high everything happens for a reason . And try to make the best of it try to spend time and make special memories happen .  ... View more

Exactly what rbx4 said, u need to find out and soon, just in case, the sooner anything is found the best chance u have of fighting it... good luck hope its all good 🙂 ... View more

I agree. I also agree with the karma part. I accept that my current situation is as a result of past misbehaviour in past lives. Please note that this is my own personal view and does not extend to anyone else. This is part of the reason I turned vegan. I hope that I do not have to suffer more treatment though than the current round. If I do then I must accept this although I hope that I am cured and as a result a better person. ... View more

I am dealing with stage 4 bowel cancer as well and I have come through the surgery, radiotherapy and numerous rounds of chemo. Overall I am feeling pretty well and able to handle day to day things, including some work. It is stressful and difficult but if you take it one step at a time, one day at a time, one task at a time - you can work through it. Every day will be different, listen to your body and rest when you need to. I agree with DG, don't ask scary questions unless you think you can deal with answers. Focus on the treatment you are doing and give yourself the best chance to get through that then see what they have to say. Things are different now, focus on you and work with your body to heal. Take care Kim ... View more

Hi Shannon, My dad who is 71 years old was diagnosed with Lung Cancer in 2007. Lucky it was only one small tumour & he had surgery to remove the lower lobe of his lung & there was no signs of cancer in any lymph nodes. In 2009 he had a seizure & they found a secondary tumour in the brain. This was successfully removed then followed by whole brain radiation. He coped very well with the radiation mostly suffered from fatigue & hives. He has had problems with his short term memory since the surgery. The long term side effects are that he has lost most of his hearing, balance with his walking and that's about it. At his last checkup last month i asked his doctor about the side effects & he told me that they really dont have any research as he is the 1 in 100 that has gone into remission. My dad never asked doctors throughout his treatment what the prognosis was. It was like he thought if he didn't ask they couldn't tell him bad news. Made me believe in positive thinking! It has inspired me with my battle with Lymphoma ... View more

Yeah i am always getting told to do as my body wants as in if i need to rest then rest! sleep then sleep! I'm pleased that u have a lot of support as do i, we need it and sometimes LOTS of it, Im pretty tired and fall asleep at the drop of a hat, in the middle of conversations! it puts me off going anywhere in case i cant keep up with everyone and therefore spoil it for others, but at the same time if i continue that i wont do anything! I hope your feeling better than u was...... Take Care Kim Deb's ... View more

Hi Juno, Have a chat with you GP, talk to the Cancer Nurses on here and get another appointment with your GYN. You can never have too much information. Eva x ... View more

Oh darling i feel for you so much, So sorry you and your mum is dealing with this, I hope things go well for you and that she makes a good recovery xxx ... View more

Hi Jenni, Have you looked into joining the gynaecological cancer group through this website? I too have also just asked to join. It would probably be beneficial in providing some specific GYN/ONC focused support. ... View more