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Coping with a loved one's cancer

Resentment

Hi all, I don’t know how to deal with this resentment I feel towards my partner. I feel like all I am here for is to care for him. And it is happiness that matters, I feel very miserable and selfish.

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Lung cancer and loss

My mum has lung cancer and se ondaries in 3 places. I am sick of people telling me "well, you’re at that age where parents will die" just because im 48, doesn’t make it any easier to live with!!!!

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Hi everyone , my beautiful healthy vibrant mother had just got off her first ever cruise in October 2018. She was diagnosed with glioblastoma grade 4 brain cancer in November of the same year and everything just fell apart. My parents at the time lived 7 hours away...Read More

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Husband with lung cancer

My husband has just been diagnosed with metastic lung cancer, he also has leukemia. He is so angry and mean that he is pushing everyone away. I just don’tkniw How to cope. On occasion he gets manic. He is so stubborn about taking meds for his mood swings. He i...Read More

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My husband has lung cancer.

It was diagnosed 8 months ago. At the same time we have great financial losses. He is very depressed everyday he sobs. He is on anti depressants but it doesn’t help. He is frightened and we spend hours dealing with his depression. I am doing everything to ke...Read More

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My mum diagnosed with 3rd cancer diagnosis in 3 years

My mum was first diagnosed with bowel cancer in April 2016. It was easily diagnosed, successful surgery and chemo treatment. For 12 months she had good results but then in late 2018 cancer was found in a muscle near her stomach. This was harder to detect/diagnose a...Read More

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My Mum is dying

2 1/2 years ago my Mum was diagnosed with mesothelioma, so we knew from the start it was terminal cancer, knowledge which is both a blessing and a curse. Early this year they decided she had ran out of treatment options and was handed over to palative care. Having ...Read More

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Pancreatic Cancer

My husband had Whipple Surgery Apri 1, 2019 horrible pain difficulty with eating lots of gas and frustration. We need support encouragement and hope as we enter int chemo in June.

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Brain Metastasis Cancer

Hi all, my mum found out she has liver & colon cancer Feb 2017. She also had neuroendocrine cancer. Since then she has had 3 round of chemo and 2 surgeries to remove the cancer. A month ago she was told there were not any traces of cancer but when recovering from s...Read More

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Argument

Himy dad has stage 3B lung cancer. We found out last March and he had been getting treatment throughout that time. I thought I was doing well with coping with this but as of late, my dad has been getting progressively worse and we have found out today that his tumo...Read More

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